Ok, I'm going to Greenville, SC on St. Patty's Day

Well, my hubby is pissed. I had a manic moment this morning and decided to buy a ticket to go to Greenville. When I found out last night that Erica was going, then I saw the plans starting to be put into motion and I saw that I was not going to be a part of them. I had a pit in my stomach and I mentioned it to my hubby this morning around 7:30 a.m. He tells me that since the show is on our daughter's 5th bday, I should not go. I should just be satisfied with going to Richmond, VA on the 18th and not worry about going to the Greenville show. Well, I was upset and we argued some. Well, he left for work around 8:30 a.m. and he smiled at me and told me not to worry about it. Well, I emailed my aunt and asked could she drive to Richmond, checked the distance from my house to Greenville, figured out when the bishes were going to be there, put together a plan, and said what the hell and bought my ticket. Well, I texted my bishes and of course they are excited for me to do so. I called my husband and told him that I had bought my ticket and told him my plan, he was ho hum and had the whole gotta go excuse and got off the phone. So, I knew he's pissed.

Here's my plan: I work 12 hours on 3rd Sunday night. Sleep till 1 pm, go to my daughter's school and have a bday party there for her around 3 p.m. Yes, this is the 16th (not her bday of the 17th) but I think it will work, then leave from the school to go to SC, stay Monday night, arena stalk Tuesday, go to the show Tuesday night, leave SC around 7 a.m. get home around 1 p.m., shower, and leave for Richmond around 3 p.m. I think that's a pretty good plan. I will come home on Wednesday night late. My daughter's bday party is not even until Saturday the 21st. I'm going to leave a present for her to open on her bday. Am I a bad mother????

My husband came home this evening, we went out to eat and he didn't speak to me the whole meal. We began to argue on the way home. We had this same argument when I went to DC. I just don't understand why he doesn't just go and do things on his own and with his friends. He said to me: "So you would be ok if I left and went 2 states off for 2 days partying with my friends, come home and then leave again for another day to party with friends?" I told him yes because I trust him. He says: "It's not about trust, its about you leaving me at home with all the kids yet again and then you work all weekend and I have to watch the kids then and I can't go anywhere." Well, first of all, I have arranged child care for the afternoons, all he has to do is get them off to school in the mornings. What's the problem? The weekends? Yeah I work, but he has the opportunity to leave and go do things, he just choses not to. The recliner is his friend, along with the XBox360.

Ok, I have vented. I'm done.